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Mishpachah Yeshua Newsletter A Newsletter To The Family Of Jesus From Restoration Ministries The Hebraic family is not simply an individual or private matter. [click here for a printable copy] March/April 2003 Topic: Men Standing
in the Gap Dear Friends,
You probably grieve as we do over the
paucity of godly men who are courageous and loving for Jesus.
This newsletter pinpoints the challenging task of becoming a
follower of Jesus who stands his ground in the world. It also
details the kind of leadership for families and faith
communities that our God seeks in this time of growing
spiritual darkness. In our effeminized culture, raising up
stalwart men is difficult, but not impossible — however, it takes extreme resolve!
For me one of saddest verses in the Bible
is, “I looked for a man among
them who would build up the wall and stand
before me in the gap on behalf of
the land so I would not have to destroy it, but I found none” (Eze. 22:30). The Hebraic Restor-ation
encompasses the necessary elements for mature men to stand in
the gap for our Lord and to produce successors in the faith.
“Whoever wants to become great among
you must be your servant” (Matt.
20:26).
None of the rudiments we explore in this
letter works in Hellenistic, man-centered Christi-anity.
Whether people want to face it or not, most contemporary
leaders lord their influence over others, leading no one
anywhere. They talk at and manage, but fail to lead as the godly, observant watchmen God calls for.
And sadly, a certain type of people prefer to be led nowhere.
More on this in a moment.
The Hellenistic system calls for a
seminary degree and the ability to orally articulate with a
little charisma for effect. How shallow! And how few lives are
impacted!
On the other hand, there are men today who
are being prepared to lead the fellowships akin to those of the
early Church. They are learning not only to serve, but also to role model and to courageously guard the flocks the Lord has entrusted to their care. This
multifaceted role begins with learning to properly enact godly
authority in their home — an
authority that produces peace. Our
Father never commanded leaders to rule
over His children as worldly
leaders do. Instead, He wanted leaders who would lead by example and personally care for the
people.
Few of the men God is raising up will be
known beyond their own faith communities. To those who truly
yearn to serve Jesus in Spirit and in truth, becoming
well-known is more of a pit than a blessing. The men our Father
is preparing will lead people on the pilgrimage to salvation, not manage groups as is
so common in Hellenist congregations.
“Your old men will dream
dreams” (Acts 2:17)
A few weeks ago our Lord gave me a dream
that illustrated the intense sacrifice men who stand in the gap
will have to make:
A battle was raging. An Army officer
hunkered down in a fox hole spotted one of his troops wounded
in front of him. With bullets flying around him, he crawled
from the foxhole and dragged the wounded man back into it. The
officer was glad just to have survived the rescue.
A few minutes later a hand grenade was
tossed into the foxhole. The wounded soldier was too injured to
get away from it. The officer could have jumped out of the
foxhole to save himself, leaving the wounded soldier to die.
But instead he leaped onto the hand grenade.
This is the nature of leadership that will
hallmark the courage of the men who are choosing intimate
relationship with and personal responsibility to our Father. Their love makes
their sacrifice a joy.
I shared this anecdote in a previous
letter, and it may be worthwhile to repeat it:
For years at our retreat center I used to
test the fruit of Hellenistic Christianity that produces men
who desire personal acclaim rather than the servant leaders our
Lord requires. I’d simulate throwing a hand grenade in
the middle of a group. “You have three seconds before the
hand grenade blows up. One...two... three...”
50% of the women and teenagers
jumped on the hand grenade.
10% of the men jumped on the
grenade.
0% of the clergy ever jumped on the
grenade.
If you think about this scenario, it
appears that Hellen-ism produces leaders who are more concerned
with self-preservation than with personal sacrifice.
Evaluate yourself:
Would you jump on the hand grenade? Would you?
Would you have to stop and think
about it first? . . . BOOM!
Another recent dream recently that came in
two parts:
In the first dream I saw a woman giving
birth to a child. Her husband was waiting to receive the baby.
I knew that the image of the husband awaiting his child
symbolized a deep truth.
The Lord explained the dream to me. A
healthy biblical tension exists between a mother and a father
as they raise their children. Each has a part to play in
developing mature young adults. The transition from
Momma-dependent to Father-directed has tre-mendous implications
in producing spiritually and emotionally healthy young
men and women.
The second dream offered the same scene, a
husband waiting to receive the baby from the mother. But this
dream featured an added element: A man representing the government was
standing behind the father, waiting to snatch the child as
quickly as possible.
I could feel the father’s sorrow as he tried to do his part as God requires. But he was stuck between the dependent child’s mother and the government’s overbearing influence. [In our website under Hebraic Articles is an essay entitled He Has Showed You, in which we deal with the quest of government to undermine parental influence in children’s lives.] The Holy Spirit used these two dreams as the foundation for this newsletter. So God created man in his own image, in
the image of God he
created him; male and female he created
them” (Gen.1:27).
Obviously, God created two genders. Yet,
there is much more behind the words ‘male’ and
‘female’ than most Christians pay attention to
— to our own detriment! Prophetic voices today have been
warning how much the spirit of Jezebel, an effeminate
domineering spirit, controls this nation, the church included.
Effeminate domination has made it very difficult, though not
impossible, to raise children who will fulfill the gender
responsibilities delineated in the Bible.
If you’re leading a home church, you
are dealing with the largest group of immature people under 50
years of age that ever existed! You’re also dealing with
the greatest number of men and women who lack strong gender
identification. (We’ll discuss this shortly.)
This prolonged adolescence isn’t
totally their fault. Since the end of World War II in 1945,
this nation has dashed headlong into effeminate dominance over
many areas of society and church. Few seemed to have examined
the Bible to discern God’s gender responsibilities.
People took it for granted that boys would become men, and
girls become women.
In Restoring
the Early Church and in our
article, He Has Showed You, we present a comparison of societies throughout
history. A healthy society is called the “Trustee Family.” It is patriarchal, with self-sacrificial men in
leadership who serve the interests of the people as a whole.
Unhealthy societies are called “Atomistic.” People are
individualistic and preoccupied with self. Feminism abounds. Every culture in history that has reached this
latter stage has destroyed itself. The U.S. is at this point!
Our purpose in writing is not to save this
nation, but to equip the followers of Jesus to live for Him and
to raise Godly generations to succeed them. Biblical faith
communities are patriarchal, led by servant leaders. As we
continue to share the Hebraic foundations, we’re
endeavoring to help establish “Trustee”- style
faith communities with converts from today’s
“Atom-istic” culture. With God’s help it can
be done, but the task won’t be easy. Peculiarly humble men are
needed.
What Have I Been Handed?
Study this analogy of what you’re
facing. You are a high school basketball coach in a very small high
school. Two players show up in their freshman year to play. One
is short but an excellent player, involved in leagues for 5
years. The other is 6’5” but has never shot a
basketball before. You need them both!
In the movie Hoosiers, the new high school basketball coach arrives
the first day of practice and murmurs, “Let’s see
what I’ve been handed.” Before that practice is
over, two insolent boys have been kicked off the team for
violating his standards of conduct. Later, one repents, rejoins
the team and contributes greatly to winning the Indiana High
School Champion-ship that year.
Like the coach, no one who loves God can
raise their children without establishing and enforcing His
boundaries for them. Commending right behavior and attitudes,
and correcting the detrimental ones comes with the authority
God gave us over our children. This
is the same for leadership of home fellowships.
Like a coach, a true biblical leader must
have a developmental view of our Father’s children as he
leads. He’s leading them on a pilgrimage to our Father,
and along the way they’ll be transformed into
Christlikeness.
Biblical leaders find themselves
“parenting” adults. This is why the older men, like
the zakens [zah-KENs] — the gray-bearded elders of the early
Church — need to take their rightful place in pastoring
faith communities.
So much of the house church movement today
has given in to the Atomistic influence of no boundaries, and no
one to uphold righteous living on behalf of our Father. These
gatherings are free-for-alls that let wolves in to destroy the
sheep. To the detriment of the Name of Jesus, these groups have
a turnover rate that no business could tolerate and survive.
And still, no one goes after the lost...
Men in the Gap
“He will turn the hearts of the
fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to
their fathers, or else I will come and strike the land
with a curse” (Mal. 4:6).
Especially if you are a servant leader of a home fellowship, it may be worthwhile to review the factors that affect maturation in this country. This may help you understand the issues that are facing current leadership in God’s faith communities. [Refer to the diagram below]
Age 0-4
Legitimate studies on children over the
past 50 years have shown consistently the crucial influence that
involved fathers have on the lives of their children. Between
birth and the age of 4, fathers enable their children, both
boys and girls, to develop correct sex-role identification.
Some think that just because a person has
particular sex organs, he or she will respond according to that
gender. This has been proven wrong. A father is crucial to a
child identifying with the role enactment of his or her gender.
[We highly recommend Bringing Up
Boys by Dr. James Dobson for
specific studies and insights.]
Group A on the chart represents an
involved father raising healthy boys and girls. A
father’s effect on his children before the age of 4
can’t be overstated. The lasting fruit of his involvement
is almost miraculous!
In Group B, the father is present, but for
a variety of reasons, is uninvolved in rearing his children.
Group C are children being raised without fathers or a
father-figure (grandfather, uncle, close family friend who
gives counsel and direction to the mother). An exhaustive study
reported 35 years ago demonstrated that children raised without
a father’s (or father-figure’s) influence in the
0-4 age range have a 75% greater chance of growing to be
homosexuals and lesbians. Other studies have shown that both
homosexuals and rapists have one thing in common: Both lack proper sex-role identification.
Studies also reveal that mothers have no effect at all in
males developing healthy sex-role identification. As a result,
several states stopped automatically giving custody of young
children of divorce to their mother. The complete absence of a
father or influential father-figure has shown itself to be the
most destructive environment in general for a child age 0-4.
However, having an uninvolved father or
father-figure (Group B) is often better than having no father.
The situation is still unhealthy, often leaving some unresolved
identity problems for the child later in life. For instance,
one unhealthy aspect brought about by an uninvolved father is
that a boy often becomes a Momma’s
boy. You may have seen the studies
which show the incredible destruction that a dominant mother—weak father relationship can bring on their sons. Even the
nicest of single-parent mothers end up dominating their sons
and daughters if no influential male comes alongside.
Later in life Group B boys face major
hurdles when they go through tough times. Rather than learning
perseverance they seek empathy. Their lives revolve more around their hurt
feelings than in doing what is right and responsible.
Where a man would admonish them, the women they go to offer
them consolation, which only exasperates their problem.
The daughters of uninvolved fathers become
controlling and develop independent spirits. Sadly, these two
characteristics are em-blems of the feminist movement. These
women have difficulty maintaining and enjoying marital intimacy
with their husbands. Domi-nation, manipulation, and a resistant
spirit surface more than a submissive spirit to either God or
husband.
Age 4 through Adolescence
To remain on a healthy track, Group D will
need the support of other adults, especially males, who can
support the father in the corrective processes that lead to
maturity. In the early church this was provided by extended
family and other adults in the home church. In healthy tribal
societies the adult males within the clan provide this support.
Group B (uninvolved father) has a choice
in this time period. With-out the influence of appropriate
males in positions of authority, they will continue to develop
self-centered pursuit (F). What is detrimental to the Christian
community is that many of these men will become leaders in
faith communities (K). They’ll enjoy relationships as
long as they are in charge. Their lack of male role-modeling makes them
non-confrontive but popular in an effeminate church culture.
They enjoy friendliness without the accountability that healthy faith communities enjoy.
The E>K males have a tremendous need
for recognition. They are the willing “warm bodies”
that seeker-friendly churches need to keep the system growing. These are men who perform for their own benefit
or recognition. Many of these men
have what I call the “Judas syndrome”: On the surface they seem to be with you, but
when difficult times come they‘ll let you down or turn on
you.
Group F are those who for one reason or
another end up in situations that confront and challenge their
attitudes and behavior. Partici-pation in sports or activities
under healthy coaching or an after school job with good
supervision can help change a boy to grow responsibly. Military
service can help, too.
Sue and I came from the B>E>F track.
Coaches, teachers, jobs, and the military were instrumental in
maturing us. After we came to Christ, older mentors along our
life path helped us even more.
The same factors that affect B>E>F
apply also to reaching H individuals. Identification factors
can be changed in the right environment. Remember, “Jesus looked at them and said,
‘With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible’” (Matt.
19:26).
Because of His love, God will intervene in
order to confront people who are going astray. It’s
amazing how many people who fail to yield to milder forms of
confrontation in their lives end up enlisting in the Marines
because they “don’t want anyone telling them what
to do!”
Adulthood. . .
In adulthood, Group I will continue to
grow in responsibility. They won’t duck correction but
will welcome it for their own betterment. Spiritually mature
men and women with a servant’s attitude are so important
to the well-being of the faith communities our Lord is
restoring.
Adults in Groups K or M can still change
to follow the path of J and L, respectively. However, change is
a little harder in adulthood. Group K probably represents the
greatest percentage of people in current Hellenized
Christianity. Easily attracted into churches that use
entertainment to attract them, these are the ones the
seeker-friendly churches recruit for “church
growth.” Enjoyable music and pleasurable sermons that
avoid conviction of sin give the illusion of worship.
As the writer to the Hebrews declares
about those who wallow in immaturity and don’t want to
change, “We have much to say
about this, but it is hard to explain because you are slow to learn. In
fact, though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need
someone to teach you the elementary
truths of God's word all over
again.
You need milk, not solid food! Anyone who lives on milk,
being still an infant, is not
acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves
to distinguish good from evil” (Heb. 5:11-14).
Group K folks prefer easy words from the
pulpit because they are unlikely to search the Scriptures for
themselves. These people fill singles’ groups around the
country. Enter-tainment and distraction rather than confrontation
and conviction to press on are their intent.
Group K individuals also represents the
majority of lonesome divorced—remarried—redivorced
individuals who want to belong to someone, but don’t want
to learn the boundaries of healthy relationships. Many flock to
counselors who supply temporary relief, but most avoid at all
cost those who would confront them in Christ’s love and
hold them accountable.
Group M are lesbians, homosexuals, and
sexually promiscuous whose lifestyles are an abomination to
God. Homosexual churches that misinterpret Scripture, and New
Age congregations that deny the clear truth of the Word are
springing up.
During our retreat center days we met
people in Group L who were changed through repentance and
God’s power. Many were blessed with wonderful marriages
and families, for our Lord is in the business of saving those
who wholeheartedly seek Him!
Group K: “Momma’s
Boy”
Recently I spent time with two men with
whom I’ve had a close relationship for several years. To
my inner joy they both expressed how much I’ve helped
them stop being “Momma’s boys.” Both of these
guys are over 40. The Momma’s boy epidemic in this
country is the fruit of effeminized public education and the
absence of meaningful male role models in Christiandom.
A Momma’s boy:
1. Is always looking for recognition when
he accomplishes something. “Momma, Momma, look at
me!” still controls his motivation. (“Momma”
might be his wife, his boss, even his buddies.)
2. Seeks out empathy when his feelings are hurt. He’ll do
anything to avoid the accountability and confrontation that a
mature man would provide.
3. Is controlled by the women in his life. He’s
fearful of displeasing them, and can’t face the turmoil
any confrontation with them might entail. So many Momma’s
boys are prisoners in their own marriage because they fear
their wives more than they fear God.
I have some questions for you men to
honestly answer:
Do any of the above statements
apply to you?
Do your child(ren) show more
respect to your wife than to you? To whom do they go for
permission?
Are you able to love your wife as
Jesus would no matter how she treats you?
When you’re hurt by your
wife, do you withhold affection from her? Or, do you go to
Jesus for the strength to love her even if she never changes?
Group K: Mothering:
Fear & Control
Group K has produced an epidemic of
“mothering” women. Blinded by domination,
manipulation and a resistant spirit, a “mothering”
woman has an incomplete view of things going on around her. Circle A represents
the sum of variables she’s
willing to pay attention to. She
sees life only from her narrow vantage point, and is unwilling
to receive input from others. She’s also reluctant to
fully yield to men who are in authority. The totality
of variables that affect a
situation are contained in Circle B. The variables represented by B contribute to a
decision that benefits everyone involved.
How do your family and others close to you
see you in regard to this diagram? Wives, can your husband give you
input without feeling apprehensive about your response? Do you
always have to get your own way, or do you concede, but pout or
withdraw affection? Do your decisions really consider the
feelings and values of others? (See Prov. 14:1.)
Are you a woman who can’t
trust your husband because of your past? Are you quick to point
out faults in your husband or in other men, thinking,
“Isn’t that just like a man?”
Are you a woman who tends to mother
her husband? Do you take control of areas in which the Bible
has assigned him responsibility? In particular, do you sweat
family finances? Has it occurred to you that your control is
destroying the intimacy in your marriage?
Are you a meddling mother-in-law?
Have you had a hand in dissolving the marriage covenant of one
of your children? What do you need to do about this?
Men of Loving Courage
“Nobody should seek his own good,
but the good of others...
Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith;
be men of courage; be strong”
(1 Cor. 10:24; 16:13).
If you are in spiritual leadership remind
yourself that you are representing a loving and holy Father in the
lives of His children. Within His love are boundaries for including
people in His fellowships as de-scribed in His Word. If you fear hurting the feelings of people in the course of
serving God uprightly, you aren’t ready to serve as one
of His leaders.
Neither Jesus nor Paul accepted everyone
who wanted to go with him. Jesus left behind the rich ruler and
those who refused to walk in the light. Paul left behind John
Mark and those who preferred the world to Jesus. In order to
uphold biblical boundaries, every leader of God’s people
must have the spiritual courage to confront when necessary. In
this Atomistic culture, and especially for Groups K and M,
rebuking and confronting may be all you can do to help them
turn from their path to death.
No matter where you started in life, if
you are in the I, F, H, J, or L lines of mature development,
your spirit will yearn to know God’s boundaries and uphold
them. Because you have learned the beauty of how confrontation
helped you to change and become more responsible, you can more
easily grasp Paul’s words, “Now
we ask you, brothers, to respect those who work hard among you, who
are over you in the Lord and who confront you
to enable you to change” (1 Thess. 5:12).
Spiritual Triage
In order to uphold God’s Holiness, a
spiritual leader must exercise spiritual
triage [TREE-ahzh).
When Sue and I arrived at the retreat
center in 1983, we were asked to ‘triage’. Our
predecessor had destroyed his ministry at the center because he
refused to confront those who refused to turn from their sin.
Over time things things kept getting worse, until a suicide
brought his ministry to an end. We needed to triage in order to
rebuild the ministry, so we sought Holy Spirit discernment
concerning those who came on retreats.
Triage sorts people into one of three
categories. The explanation below shows the category criteria.
Again, the guidance of the Holy Spirit is crucial. When we
dealt with Levels 2 or 3, it was amazing how the Spirit gave
our staff the same discernment concerning an individual.
Level 1
Spiritually Healthy
People who are healthy spiritually will go
on following Jesus with or without your help. They are fully
functioning as they serve the purposes of Jesus.
Level 2
Spiritually Wounded
These individuals need prompt attention
and biblical counsel from someone who genuinely cares for them.
If counsel is given, received, and acted upon, their probability of joining Level 1 increases.
We subdivided this group using a scale of 0 to 90. Those nearer
to “0” are not seriously wounded. Those with
low numbers need encouragement and direction. Those nearer “90” are severely
wounded, and headed toward Level 3. These people have walked in
unrepentance for a long time. They normally need a rebuke to
stop their downward fall. The rebuke can act like
“paddles” used on a cardiac patient. It’s
important for those who accept the
rebuke to be given specific biblical direction and ongoing personal
accountability if they are to
grow in spiritual health. Call it “intensive care”
for a period of time. Remember, they are near death!
Level 3
Spiritually Dead
These people enjoy their sin and have no
desire to change. They are the ones in whom Satan has a
foothold. He uses them to wear down healthy followers of Jesus,
or to entice the wounded into spiritual death. If you have an
“open door” policy in your faith community without
discernment over who comes and goes, Satan will send you all
the Level 3 people he can. Most will appear needy. Yet, behind
this seeming neediness they hide a reluctance to deal with
their bitterness. Their narratives portray themselves as
blameless victims.
Paul recognized the damaging influence the
spiritually dead can have on those who seek godly living and answered prayer
in their faith community. Read this passage aloud with
the passion with which Paul wrote:
“And you are proud! Shouldn't you
rather have been filled with grief and have put out of your fellowship the man who
did this? ...hand this man over to
Satan, so that the sinful nature may be destroyed and his spirit saved on the day of the Lord” (1 Cor. 5:2,5).
Biblical Leadership:
Parenting Adults
For a number of years I was an instructor
pilot in the Navy. An instructor has already gone through
training and has achieved the required proficiency. With that
combination of knowledge, skill and experience, he can then
help those behind him develop as his successors.
As a mature leader of God’s family,
you need to know where you are taking people, and how to help
them get there. Remember, you can’t take people where you
haven’t been yourself. [Our study guide on Hinds’ Feet On High Places entitled Going to
the High Places is very helpful in
this area. You can find it on our website under Pilgrimage.]
Just as there are training criteria for an
instructor pilot, biblical criteria govern your training of
God’s people. The following short review offers some
biblical criteria that affect what you hope to accomplish
through training and role modeling.
Study Matthew, chapters 5 thru 7.
The Beatitudes and Jesus’ other teaching about character
development is a good place to start.
How unholy can you or those for whom you are
responsible before God be? What sins are acceptable to God? “But just as he who called you is holy, so
be holy in all you do, for it is written: ‘Be holy,
because I am holy’” (1
Pet. 1:15,16).
Do you have an eternal perspective? Do
you believe you are still proceeding toward your salvation even
though there is more our Lord wants to do in and through you
before you get there? “Since
you call on a Father who judges each man's work impartially,
live your lives as strangers here in reverent fear” (1 Pet. 1:17).
In what worldly values can you or
your people indulge yourselves and still be God’s
friend? “Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For everything in
the world — the
cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes
and the boasting of what he has and does —
comes not from the Father but from
the world. The world and its
desires pass away, but the man who does
the will of God lives
forever” (1 John 2:
15-17).
What sinful
attitudes are acceptable to God?
How would you deal with them when you encounter them? “Therefore, rid
yourselves of all malice and all
deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind” (1 Pet. 2:1).
How intense a devotion to Him does
our Lord Jesus require? Are you discerning enough to recognize
when people have idols that compete with Jesus? “Anyone who loves his father or mother more than
me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves his son or daughter
more than me is not worthy of me; and anyone who does not take
his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his
life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will
find it” (Matt. 10:37-39).
In Ephesians 5:22-33 and 1 Peter
3:1-7 our Lord presents His criteria for married people
to relate to Him and to each other. Can you and your spouse
role model these? Can you in love confront others in your faith
community concerning their sins to help them turn to godliness?
In 2 Peter 1:5-11 we are given a
pattern for spiritual development. Peter emphasizes a point, “For if you possess these qualities in
increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective
and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus
Christ.” Can you lead people
into developing the qualities that grow in “increasing
measure”?
If you want to lead God’s people you
must be a servant, first of all, of His Son Jesus. Upholding
Jesus and His holiness in love is preeminent at all cost. With
the Cornerstone of Jesus before you, you can serve Him as you
serve His people. That service is best seen as you help them
grow into the likeness of Jesus. If you keep Jesus first,
you’ll become more effective as you guide His people.
Build from the Scriptures your criteria to guide yourself and
others.
“All Scripture is God-breathed and
is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in
righteousness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly
equipped for every good work” (2 Tim. 3:16,17).
The Hebraic Restoration teaches all of Scripture.
The Older Testament is the foreshadow and prophetic forerunner
of the Newer. The Bible expands in depth
of heart application from 613
commands in the Older Testament to 1,050 in the Newer: “This is love
for God: to obey his commands. And his
commands are not burdensome” (1 Jn 5:3).
How many of these commands—our Lord’s directions
for godly living—do you know? Which ones are you to
observe, and which are no longer applicable?
A biblical leader helps guard the flock
from drifting off either side of the path through the Narrow
Gate. On one side is legalistic perversion, an inner
motive to gain God’s love
through obedience, or to feel justified by obedience (see Paul’s warnings throughout Galatians). The
other side off the path is “greasy grace,”
perceiving God’s grace as a license to sin: “They are godless men, who change the
grace of our God into a license for immorality and deny Jesus
Christ our only Sovereign and Lord” (Jude 4).
Your leadership is crucial to help
maintain the righteousness that leads to answered prayer. The
lack of answered prayer — God-sized answers —
should indicate to you that unrepentant sin is being tolerated
in your faith community. [More on this is found in our book Pastoring by Elders, and in Section 3 of Restoring the
Early Church.]
Remember, our Father is a miracle-worker.
He dotes on His children who trust in His Son Jesus. Yet, He
Who is One with His Father was constrained by the
people’s lack of trust (see Matt. 13:58).
Thoughts to Consider
On the diagram on page 3, where
would you put yourself today?
What track did you take to get
where you are?
If you are in Group K, can you look
back and see God’s attempts to help you change?
Almost all the senior adults with
whom I speak are in Group K. The desire for the pleasures of
retirement seduced them, even those who once were on the A>D
path. Are you involved in helping younger generations with the
wisdom you needed at their age? Have you showed them any
hospitality?
Take the time to talk over the
diagram with others who are close to you. If you’re a
parent or grandparent, talk about your history with your
children, and what they can learn from your life.
How little attention is devoted to our
Father in many Christian communities. And typically, so many
feminize Jesus as “meek and mild” but ignore that
He is the mighty King of Kings! We hope each person who reads
these newsletters will take up their appropriate responsibility
to reflect Jesus to the world.
May our Father raise up men who will
lovingly and courageously stand in
the gap leading others to develop
Christ-likeness. Please do more than just read. Ask our Lord to
help you live more for Him!
Our love, Mike
& Sue
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